{"id":1688,"date":"2012-05-21T12:58:41","date_gmt":"2012-05-21T17:58:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kickert.info\/blog\/?p=1688"},"modified":"2012-05-21T12:58:44","modified_gmt":"2012-05-21T17:58:44","slug":"matthew","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/kickert.info\/blog\/2012\/05\/21\/matthew\/","title":{"rendered":"Matthew"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>May has been a tough month for the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cabriniministries.org\">Cabrini Ministries<\/a>\u2019 family.&#160; <\/p>\n<p>My last <a href=\"http:\/\/kickert.info\/blog\/2012\/05\/15\/there-is-already-too-much-death-in-swaziland\/\">blog post<\/a> was about the death of two toddlers connected with the organization who drowned in the canal.&#160; Unfortunately, this post is also about death.&#160; Yesterday we found out that our night watchman Matthew had passed away.&#160; He had been battling tuberculosis and other complications for several months now, so it wasn\u2019t out of the blue.&#160; But, to make matter\u2019s worse, Matthew\u2019s son Mfundi is also an employee, so the impact is doubled. <\/p>\n<p>Matthew didn\u2019t speak much English, but he was one of the Cabrini employees that we interacted with most often.&#160; As the night watchman, he often hung out by our door and we frequently shared our dinners with him.&#160; Mikayla was particularly found of Matthew and would run up to him and try to have long conversations with him.&#160; He was just smile and say \u201cYes Sisi (sister).\u201d <\/p>\n<p>Even though his shift was primarily over night, he would often cut the grass in our front yard with a machete in the dawn and dusk hours.&#160; Many a summer mornings I woke up to the sound of methodical slashing coming from outside. <\/p>\n<p>Matthew was mostly soft-spoken, but when given the chance, he would gladly share from the bottom of his heart how blessed he felt in his life. <\/p>\n<p>He was not without his faults, but he was still a great guy and earnest in his love of Cabrini Ministries and its work.&#160; Sister Barbara was always fond of saying tongue in cheek: &quot;The only security issues we have are with our security staff.&quot;&#160; The truth is, whether or not we were safer because of his services is debatable, but what is unquestioned is that Cabrini as a whole was better off for having him as part of the staff. <\/p>\n<p>This isn&#8217;t the first time I have had a co-worker pass away, but anytime it happens, it is difficult.Like I said\u2026 May has been a tough month for us.&#160; Here is hoping June looks better. <\/p>\n<p align=\"center\"><a href=\"http:\/\/kickert.info\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/ThembaImportCabriniKids354.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"border-right-width: 0px; display: block; float: none; border-top-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 0px; margin-left: auto; border-left-width: 0px; margin-right: auto\" title=\"Themba Import (Cabrini Kids) 354\" border=\"0\" alt=\"Themba Import (Cabrini Kids) 354\" src=\"http:\/\/kickert.info\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/ThembaImportCabriniKids354_thumb.jpg\" width=\"302\" height=\"404\" \/><\/a> <small>[<em>Matthew enjoying the buffet at the Child Protection training.<\/em>]<\/small><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>May has been a tough month for the Cabrini Ministries\u2019 family.&#160; My last blog post was about the death of two toddlers connected with the organization who drowned in the canal.&#160; Unfortunately, this post is also about death.&#160; 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