{"id":1684,"date":"2012-05-15T13:15:09","date_gmt":"2012-05-15T18:15:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kickert.info\/blog\/?p=1684"},"modified":"2012-05-15T13:15:13","modified_gmt":"2012-05-15T18:15:13","slug":"there-is-already-too-much-death-in-swaziland","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/kickert.info\/blog\/2012\/05\/15\/there-is-already-too-much-death-in-swaziland\/","title":{"rendered":"There is already too much death in Swaziland"},"content":{"rendered":"

Last Tuesday morning started like usual\u2026 in fact, it had a certain air of excitement to it: We had just informed a few of our staff members that they would be traveling to the United States for an AIDS conference.  Adults who rarely show excitement were bursting with smiles, almost to the point of giggling.<\/p>\n

Unfortunately within a few hours the whole community around us was bursting with a different type of emotion: raw sorrow and pain.  We found out around 10am that the two 2-year-old children of one of our former staff members had drowned in the canal.  They had been staying with their Gogo (grandmother) and had wandered away.  Some of the children on a nearby homestead saw them in the water and called their parents.  By the time people reached them both were already dead.<\/p>\n

I simply don’t have the words to express the amount of sadness and grief that instantly swept through the entire area.  The mother, Nakiwe, was one of our brightest employees before she took a new job to be closer to her husband in Manzini.  The father, Felix, is a police officer, but has worked with Cabrini in the education for years and years, he was apart of life on the mission even before the current sisters were.  The grandfather was one of the major leaders in the church and in his chiefdom.  Probably a quarter of our staff live within a couple kilometers of where the boys drowned.<\/p>\n

For five days, friends and family came to the homestead to grieve with the family, but despite the crowds of people, there simply aren’t the words that can be said.  You can’t give an explanation for something as tragic as this and any words of comfort will always ring hollow.<\/p>\n

On Sunday morning before the sun came up, Beth, Mikayla and I didn’t celebrate Mother’s Day; instead we had to watch a wonderful mother bury her two innocent children.<\/p>\n

There is already too much death in Swaziland.  <\/p>\n

At least once a week one of our roughly 3,000 patients dies of HIV or TB.  The country has had to encourage people to only bury people on Saturdays because otherwise there would be no time to do anything but go to funerals.<\/p>\n

There is already too much death in Swaziland.  <\/p>\n

We deal with severe malnutrition and extreme poverty.  Rape and abuse is a common occurrence and it often comes from those closest to the victims.  Life is tough here under the best of circumstances. <\/p>\n

There is already too much death in Swaziland.  <\/p>\n

Our community shouldn’t have to deal with pain of losing two toddlers on top of everything else.<\/p>\n

I have read the Bible cover-to-cover and spent years studying scripture.  I have a degree in Religious Studies and another in Biblical Studies.  I have spent years teaching and counseling people about God and his work in the world.  But with all that knowledge, I still can’t even begin to answer the question of why things like this happen.  What Nakiwe, Felix, and their families are going through is more than anyone should every have to endure.  We simply cannot justify it or explain it; to even try is insincere and crass. All we can do is mourn and comfort each other in whatever small way we can.<\/p>\n

During our time of grieving with the family, Sister Diane had this to say: <\/p>\n

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Times like these are a great mystery, and while we may never have an answer for the pain we feel, one thing never changes: God has eternal and perfect love for all people.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

True comfort will never come in our circumstances, it can only come in understanding and living out the perfect love of God.  It doesn’t answer the question and it doesn’t end our heartache, but hopefully that perspective can help to shape our trajectory in life \u2013 even in the midst of pain.<\/p>\n

\"Mabuza [Nakiwe, Sisandza,Tandziso and Felix Mabuza at the Feast of St. Philips<\/em>]<\/small>  <\/p>\n

\"Feast<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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