{"id":1027,"date":"2010-03-16T12:10:54","date_gmt":"2010-03-16T17:10:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kickert.info\/blog\/?p=1027"},"modified":"2010-03-16T12:10:54","modified_gmt":"2010-03-16T17:10:54","slug":"of-authenticity-and-friendship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/kickert.info\/blog\/2010\/03\/16\/of-authenticity-and-friendship\/","title":{"rendered":"Of Authenticity and Friendship"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>no plans, left-overs for dinner, pajamas until noon, marathon board game sessions, 6 hours of <\/em><a href=\"http:\/\/us.imdb.com\/title\/tt0096639\/\"><em>Lonsome Dove<\/em><\/a><em>, dirty diapers, cooking and washing dishes, minor plumbing work, disc golf&#8230;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>This is how <a href=\"http:\/\/beth.kickert.info\">Beth<\/a> and I spent last weekend. \u00a0Pretty mundane and typical. \u00a0At first glance seems no different than most free weekends we have. \u00a0But, last weekend was incredible as we spent it in Tallahassee with two of our closest and oldest friends <a href=\"http:\/\/happyintheinbetween.blogspot.com\/\">Catherine<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/altmizzle.blogspot.com\/\">Dave<\/a>*\u00a0and our daughters.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_1028\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/kickert.info\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/2010-03-16-Tally-039.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1028\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-1028\" title=\"2010-03-16 Tally 039\" src=\"http:\/\/kickert.info\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/2010-03-16-Tally-039-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"http:\/\/kickert.info\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/2010-03-16-Tally-039-300x225.jpg 300w, http:\/\/kickert.info\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/2010-03-16-Tally-039.jpg 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-1028\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Catherine, Beth, Molly and Mikayla<\/p><\/div>\n<div id=\"attachment_1029\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/kickert.info\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/2010-03-16-Tally-047.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1029\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-1029\" title=\"2010-03-16 Tally 047\" src=\"http:\/\/kickert.info\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/2010-03-16-Tally-047-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"http:\/\/kickert.info\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/2010-03-16-Tally-047-300x225.jpg 300w, http:\/\/kickert.info\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/2010-03-16-Tally-047.jpg 800w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-1029\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Switch...<\/p><\/div>\n<p>What was so incredible about the weekend is just how ordinary it was. \u00a0There was no evidence of the 5 months that had elapsed since we were last together. \u00a0There were no expectations and there was not a need &#8220;to be doing something.&#8221; \u00a0Instead, we just hung out&#8230; exactly like we did in high school, and in college, and in our early married lives.<\/p>\n<p>Everytime we get together, it always strikes me how natural things are. \u00a0In fact both this weekend and the last time we were together in the Smokies, I had a hard time finding pictures. \u00a0I think that&#8217;s because there has never been the feeling that what we were doing was &#8220;special&#8221; as much as it was just a regular weekend together.<\/p>\n<p>Beth and I have many close friends, some of whom we have known for decades, but there is something special about our relationship with the Altmaiers as it epitomizes authenticity and friendship.<\/p>\n<p><small><em>*Dave has &#8220;retired&#8221; his blog, but we are trying to encourage him to start it back.<\/em><\/small><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>no plans, left-overs for dinner, pajamas until noon, marathon board game sessions, 6 hours of Lonsome Dove, dirty diapers, cooking and washing dishes, minor plumbing work, disc golf&#8230; This is how Beth and I spent last weekend. \u00a0Pretty mundane and typical. \u00a0At first glance seems no different than most free weekends we have. \u00a0But, last [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[19],"tags":[467,225,204,520],"class_list":["post-1027","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-family","tag-altmaiers","tag-friends","tag-road-trip","tag-tallahasee"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/kickert.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1027","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/kickert.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/kickert.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/kickert.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/kickert.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1027"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/kickert.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1027\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1031,"href":"http:\/\/kickert.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1027\/revisions\/1031"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/kickert.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1027"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/kickert.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1027"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/kickert.info\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1027"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}